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Why did your family always need someone to blame? In this episode, Kerry unpacks the hidden mechanics of scapegoating — how families, friend groups, and workplaces weaponize blame to protect the group and punish the "truth-teller." She breaks down introjection (how victims absorb the blame that was never theirs), the DARVO tactic abusers use to flip the narrative, and why the scapegoat role can quietly follow you into adult relationships if it's never named and healed. You'll learn: • Why scapegoating creates "dysfunctional cohesion" that keeps dysfunctional systems intact • How introjection convinces victims they deserved the blame • The difference between the golden child and the scapegoat — and why both roles are trauma responses • And why it's so hard to step out of scapegoating for good. Bring your questions live — join Kerry every Tuesday for a live education (4 p.m. CDT) and every Wednesday for a live Q&A (11 a.m. CDT). #Scapegoating #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #FamilyTrauma #ToxicFamilyDynamics #DARVO #ChildhoodTrauma #NarcissisticAbuse Chapter Titles 00:00 — When did you first realize the scapegoating was happening? 04:08 — Starving for a group you didn't even want to belong to 08:00 — Widowed at 50 and treated like grief was catching 12:04 — "It sucked to be you" — what the witnesses learn to do 15:26 — The truth-teller gets recast as the liar 19:23 — Introjection: how you swallow someone else's rage as your own 23:13 — When your child gets used as a proxy to cut you down 27:28 — Draw the genogram and watch it travel the family tree 32:19 — The hotel room conversation that undid 30 years of assuming 37:02 — Apologizing to the son she couldn't show up for 42:03 — Two narcissist films, one exposé — Kerry's take 46:00 — Three and a half days of filming, one page of lines 50:10 — The white hat in the mud: clear-cut abuse vs. the subtle kind 54:04 — Lindsay Clancy, postpartum psychosis, and a system that failed her 58:03 — Retreats, the Club, and why financial aid is always available 01:01:03 — Next week: the narcissistic collapse *************************************** IF YOU ARE A RISK of immediate danger or abuse, please get in touch with the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233. DISCLAIMER: All content and information on this website is for informational and educational purposes only and does not constitute mental health advice. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for professional advice, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in the area for your particular needs and circumstances before making any professional, legal, medical, financial, or tax-related decisions. ***************************** Feeling stuck in a toxic or troubled relationship? Take my FREE “Toxic or Troubled?” survey to discover your relationship type and get instant access to a complete, private mini-course—educational overviews, reflective questions, grounding techniques, and new strategies tailored to your situation. ▶ Start here: https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/toxic-or-troubled-survey/ READY TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP? • First Steps to Leaving online course – A step-by-step plan to safely and confidently leave a toxic partner: https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/course • Toxic-Free Relationship Club – Weekly group coaching, monthly book reads, access to past webinars, and Dr. McAvoy’s full online course: https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/club/ • Group Programs– Healing Strong, Relationship Reset, and more: https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/ STAY CONNECTED & SUPPORTED • Weekly “Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse” Substack newsletter – Insights, stories, and tools for your healing journey: https://breakingfreenarcabuse.substack.com/ FOLLOW Kerry - YouTube: @KerryMcAvoyPhD - Instagram: @KerryMcAvoyPhD - Facebook: @KerryMcAvoyPhD • Email: [email protected] • Website: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/ READ MY STORY “LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross” Available now: https://amzn.to/3NVMBXO KERRY McAVOY PHD, an author and educator, draws on her 25-year background in psychology and her lived experience as a survivor to help listeners decode toxic dynamics, recognize manipulation, and rebuild self-trust. Her memoir Love You More offers an uncensored glimpse into the dynamics of narcissistic abuse.

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