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You can go to my sponsor https://aura.com/citiesbydiana to try 14 days for free. That’s enough time for Aura to start scrubbing your personal info off these data broker sites, without you lifting a finger. --------------- Modern dating and friendship are BROKEN! These days we treat each other with a lack of care and respect. We've normalized bad behavior like ghosting, flaking and situationships. People love to blame this on dating apps and social media, but its much much more than that. There are deeper cultural and economic issues at play here and in this video we will explore a few of them as well as how we cope with being treated this way by the people in our lives. We often turn to online advice from relationship advice, attachment style content and tarot card readers. But the big question is: Why do we treat people like they're disposable? Thanks to my special guests - Ari Tong @Yourfriendari a dating advice content creator with over 100,000 followers on TikTok. https://www.tiktok.com/@ariannatong https://www.instagram.com/itsaritong/ Lyss - Twitch Streamer with 1500 followers. https://www.twitch.tv/lyssabit ---------------------------------------------- You meet someone. They're fun, attractive and interesting to talk to. You're cautious, you've been burned out by being on the apps and it's refreshing to find someone you like in the wild. Maybe it's a meet cute at a bar, coffee shop, through work or mutual friends. You are feeling a vibe. You think they might be too. They come on strong. It's like you just…get each other. You start to let down your walls, match their energy. They talk about all the things they want to do together. Travel, go on a walk in the park, go out to events, whatever it is. They seem invested in building a friendship or relationship with you. They seem like they're all in. And one day out of nowhere….the energy shifts. Silence. It's like they just died. But they're still posting to social media, everyday. More active than ever. They engage with everyone…except you. Texts and DMs go unanswered for hours, days, weeks…months. You double text, triple text. Maybe they're busy with work, or met someone else, or struggling with their mental health. Maybe they went back to their ex or just lost interest. You will never know because they won't tell you. Your for you page fills up with videos about attachment styles, you've convinced yourself they're just avoidant. The tarot card girlies got you, they read you for filth. Every reading somehow describes your exact situation and they're gonna come back in a week…they're just ashamed and working on themself. But they never come back. They don't even block you. It's like they never existed to begin with. Eventually you give up. You move on, but now you can't trust that the next person is going to do any different. So, out of fear of getting hurt again, you end up doing the same thing they did, to someone else. This isn't exclusive to the dating world either. Have you ever had a friend who's always posting to their stories, traveling to a new city every month, going out all the time. But when you make plans with them, they flake out at the last minute? They're busy with work or it's their cats birthday or they just don't show up. Even if you've known each other for years, it's like they only make time for you when it's convenient for them. It's not just people you meet on dating apps. It's not just social media. Modern relationships and friendships are broken. We have lost all sense of respect for each other, we have no accountability to each other. And this isn't just a matter of age, gender or sexuality. Men and women are both guilty of this, across generational lines. #videoessay #dating #culturalcommentary Subscribe to my channel here - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoZ9LOmu2J3d6dex2l-Md1Q?sub_confirmation=1 Support me on Patreon - http://www.patreon.com/CITIESBYDIANA Follow me on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@citiesbydiana Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/citiesbydiana/ Threads - https://www.threads.net/@citiesbydiana Follow me on Twitch - https://www.twitch.tv/citiesbydiana Steam - https://steamcommunity.com/id/citiesbydiana/ Consider supporting me with a small donation - https://ko-fi.com/citiesbydiana Bluesky - https://bsky.app/profile/citiesbydiana.bsky.social Music - https://www.epidemicsound.com/ Most footage shot by me, but some stock footage from Pexels - http://www.pexels.com 0:00 - you meet someone 2:15 - modern relationships are broken 3:03 - the illusion of choice 5:44 - modern dating is brainrot 6:54 - parasocial activity 7:43 - dating advice content with ari tong 9:50 - attachment theory 13:37 - so we blame dating apps... 15:44 - i'm in love with consumerism 16:47 - so we blame the stars... 18:36 - so we blame each other... 20:44 - so we blame the economy... 23:32 - protecting your peace with lyssabit 24:56 - modern friendship is broken 27:56 - skill issue

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