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Why Rules Can't Stop an Emotional Affair (But This Does) | Relationship Psychology Explained

United StatesPublished October 21, 2026

Views 11.6K  |  Likes 157  |  Comments 30
Views#14,926,578Global
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Adam Lane SmithAdam Lane Smith
296K subs•2.48K videos•Aug 2021

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Views

11,657

Likes

157

Comments

30

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All-time outlier score

Engagement rate

Revenue estimate

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Total (all-time): $8 – $23

Based on estimated $0.7–$2 CPM.

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Diane found out her husband had been privately messaging an old girlfriend for nine years. Now she tracks where he sits and who is next to him, and she can hear how controlling she sounds. In this video, attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith reads her letter and works through how both of those things can be true at on…

Published
October 21, 2026
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Key facts about Why Rules Can't Stop an Emotional Affair (But This Does) | Relationship Psychology Explained

Total views
11.6K
Total likes
157
Total comments
30
Published
October 21, 2026
Global rank by views
#14,926,578

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